Everybody is busy doing what they believe they must do to avoid this disgusting label of FAILURE. Nobody wants this word to be written on their resume, a lot of people have allergy hearing this word and for Christ’s sake a lot of people are also denying this violently.
Every time I ask a person
“Are you failure in life?”
They will give you a quick answer of NO! And then when I ask them WHY or HOW they say that?
They will answer you by AH! UH! MM rhymes.
Instead of living to the alibis and lies to hide your so called FAILURE in life why don’t we change our views and think in this way that…
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A FAILURE and SUCCESS in life,
As what Wayne Dyer said
“When you swing the golf club to hit the ball, and the ball doesn’t go inside the hole its up to you how you will view that, you can call it FAILURE because you did not shoot the golf-ball inside the hole or you can consider that as a SUCCESS because the golf-ball go nearer to the hole which will be easy for you manage” (something like this)
There are only RESULTS!
Yes whatever you do you only produce one thing…
RESULT and the interpretation to that RESULT is up to you what flavor to put.
Let’s make a short example
Some people who were divorced to their spouse because they discover that s/he is cheating become depress and very sad because of that he did not do a pretty good job on managing his life, he out-balance his responsibilities and because of this it result overweight, loose job and turn to him/her to bankruptcy after time goes by.
While some people who is also divorced to their spouse because they discover that s/he is cheating, took this as a challenge to him so s/he turn his life to become more physically fit and healthy, financial income is going high and also quit his/her job to focus more on his business, later on he is not a paying slaves anymore but a financially free person.
As you can see my example above shows that some people use RESULTS in their life in different ways, some use it to destroy themselves while somebody use it to change their life for the better.
I don’t know your stories in life, even though I heard a lot of different stories, but I believe that our past is in our control how we will interpret it, is it for the better or not.