YOU DO IT FOR YOURSELF AND NOT ANYBODY ELSE

Enero 15, 2019

The people you deal with
and the information you’ve
bathing yourself are mostly
the factors that mold you
as a person. However there
is also cases that a person
despite the fact of its
surrounding he/she is not
adopting accordingly.

There are this people that
is hard to believe to be
somebody that is very awkward
in where he came from.

Like for example those serial
killers who came from prestigious
family or someone who are so
modest but grew-up from poor
and uneducated environment,
its very amusing to hear
those kind of story because
for me it really tells me
that there are huge part
of us where we can control
our lives.

Changes really must came from
within and not the other way
around, sometimes there are
part of our lives that we
wanted to change but it aint
going thru because if you dig
deep down you’ll know that
there are several reasons that
you are not yet ready to
let go for the sake of change
you wanted.

The first crucial step is “you”
and that is for real, you can
read all such kind of books
or hire the most great personal
coach but if the “you” is not
yet “fully” ready to give it all!
Well changes is impossible.

When I say “FULLY READY” it
means you’re willing to do
anything and everything to make
that “change” to happen.

 

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PEOPEL WHO LIVE IN DENIAL(ARE THE LIVING DEAD)

Enero 10, 2019

 

What? Yes you read it right
the title of this article.

People who lives in denial
are the exact definition of
living dead.

There are cases in life that
you cannot fake it to fix it.

There are some part of it
that is crucial for you to
embrace it in order to understand
because those painful facts
in life is what really
stretched us, those painful
facts what pushed us to grow
but if you’ll deny that
“painful facts” its either
you’ll run into circle or
just kept going into the
same cycle.

Maybe what is right to do
is to make a way rather
that deny.


THE WORLD IS ALREADY PERFECT, WE JUST NEED TO KEEP IT IN BALANCE

Enero 3, 2019

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It’s been a battle cry ever since
about changing the world for the
better.

When I was a kid I already heard
it and until now that’s what
we all are aiming for.

Well I say the world is already
in a situation where it suppose
to be. there are its serious negativities
but also there are its great
positivity.

The world will be so boring
if either of the yin or the yang
over power the other, life could
be boring if the positivity
prevail or neither the negativity.

Life suppose to have that struggle
because without it life is not
life after all.

The thing is we must keep the
balance or the harmony of it
not the absence of either of
the side.

 

 


THE PROBLEM OF KNOWING WHAT IS RIGHT OR THE TRUTH

Disyembre 11, 2018

Knowing what is the truth or what
is “right” to do could be very
appealing for all of us.

We all do agree that doing what
is “right” is what we must do

We all do agree that the truth
is what must prevail

But the BIG BUT is this…

Reality say’s the opposite.

There are many things we
all do believe is right that
eventually we found out is
wrong to do but as we become
comfortable doing the old belief
most of us cling into denial rather
than to acceptance.

Sad thing is that the one
who say’s the truth or what
is the right thing to do is
being condemned.

I know some of you who read
this blog expirienced that in
some point of your life, where
you discover some sort of truth
and your’e so excited to share
it to your love ones and expecting
their great gratitude back at you
but it’s terrible to know that
instead they embrace you with
thanks because you warned them
into something a great mistake
you got criticized and hated.

You come to know that sometimes
truth really hurts or unbearable
too.

Reason why I now appriciate the
people I knew before who have
that great patience to gradually
feed the truth or the right thing
to the people who are ignorant
to what is right or what is the
truth.

Dont make a mistake that saying
or doing
what is truth and what is right
will always bring you to
a better place,
let me tell you that there are times
that saying what is truth or what
is right could bring you in many
troubles or can get killed but
also I am not saying not to say
the truth nor not to do what is
right.

What I am saying is this…

First dont complain why some
people are so mean to you
because you say what is right
or the truth, because there
are many people who live
in denial and dont want to
accept the truth or do what
is right.

There are people who want to
make their life miserable and
die like that, you dont need
to sacrifice yourself to save
them, you cannot help them out
if they will not help theirselves
first so dont waist your lifetime
to convert them to be someone
like you, after all life will
go on if they live in a lie
as long they are not a threat
to you or to the society, on
that case it would be another talk
but thing is this some people
what to cling into some particular
belief, fantasy or whatever it
is…

But that doesent mean you are
not able to live the way you
wanted to be, especially if you
want to do what is right or
what is the truth.

It is important for you to know
that you must be in a right place,
there are places in this world
that dont buy some particular
beliefs so for you to know that
is very crucial especially if
the truth or the right lifestyle
that you want to practice is
not that too known because
you could face a lot of challenges
if you live in a place that
is not matching in your ideal
lifestyle. I advice for starter
to live in a more liberated, in
a place that youre belief could
be tolerated.

Now if the “truth” or the “right”
thing you know is some sort of
message that you must relay to
someone that is special to you
and its important for him/her
to know in order save his/her
life, I say is this, remember that
serving the truth or the “right”
information in a cold manner
is not effective to be digested
most of the time. You cannot
just say to your friend that
his better half is cheating
on him or you cannot just say
to your siblings how to run
the business because most of
the time that approach got rejected.

But I know that sometimes serving
it cold is the only way to do
especially if there is no enough
time remaining. However I suggest
that as much as possible serve
the truth or the “right thing”
into gradual manner and with
much effort of good timing.

The truth is not all the time
people are flattered to know
the truth or what is right.

Sometimes knowing those
“Truth” and “Right” stuffs
are curse if it is egoistically
exposed but those are always
a blessings to human race as
long it is being shared with
kindness.

 


BRIGHT PEOPLE COME AND GO BUT-

Disyembre 11, 2018

The real people who really
have that luminous desire
to stay bright will remain.

They might be unnoticeable
but there is always a time
that they will shine and
the brightness of their light
will always be felt deeply,
it is not a common ray of brightness
but you know its them because
you’ll feel their unique energy,
they are not just a common
catch phrase but their message
really touch you very deep from
the very bottom of your soul.

I thought before that a bright
person must be always noticeable
must be always on the highest
peak of it’s light and stay like
that all the time but eventually
as I become matured I observed
that it is not necessary to
be on that highest stage of
brightness all the time because
even in practical term too much
brightness can hurt the eyes.

There are times that we need
to dim our surrounding and the
absence of brightness could
really help. Same thing to
the bright people who came in
our lives, yes they come and
go and there are some bright
people that their brightness
is not that yet pure but
it is okay because also sometimes
we don’t need the perfect brightness
to remind us the destination
we are heading for.

 

 


ANG PROBLEMA KAPAG NAGSASABI KA NG TAMA O NG KATOTOHANAN

Disyembre 11, 2018

Kung sino yung nagsasabi ng
katotohanan at ng tama ay
sila ang madalas na hindi
pinakikingan dahil ang
katotohanan o kung ano ang
tama ay hindi ka-aya-ayang
pakingan.

Minsan pa nga kung minsan
ang nagsasabi ng totoo
o ng tama ay sila pa
ang nagmumukhang masama
sa madla.

Nakakapanghinayang lang
na malamang huli na ang
lahat nang ating lubos
na maintinhan na tama o
totoo pala ang ang sinasabi
kung kelan huli na ang
lahat.

Kung kelan naloko ka na
bagaman nung una pa lang
sinabihan ka nang huwag
mong pagkatiwalaan pero
dahil nga hindi kaaya-aya
ang katotohanang sinasabi
sa iyo eh hindi mo ito
binigyan ng pansin intindihin

O di naman kaya kung kelan
napahamak ka na ay dun mo
lang maiisip na sinabihan
ka na pala nung una pa kung
ano ang tamang gawin pero
dahil nga hindi kaaya-aya
pakingan ang tamang payo
ay winalang bahala mo ito
at ngayon naririyan ka na
nga sa putik ng kabiguan.

Maiisip mo kung minsan ang
kaalaman ba na malaman mo
kung ano ang totoo o tama
ay isa bang pagpapala o sumpa?

Kasi ang malaman mo kung ano
ang tama o kung ano ang
katotohanan ng maaga ay isang
tila baga parang kapangyarihan
na pwede mong gamitin para
iligtas ang iyong kapwa
o mahal sa buhay pero paano
kung yung kapwa o mahal mo
sa buhay ang tumatangi sa
inaalok mong tulong para
sila iligtas sa una palang?

At kapag silay naipit na
sa kung anu-anong gusot
na tila wala ng pag-asang
maayos saka ka dun tatawagin
at kapag hindi mo sila
nasagip ay dun ka naman nila
sisisihin.

Kaya aking nagunita’t natutunan
na kapag alam mo kung ano
ang tama o kung ano ang totoo
hindi ibig sabihin nito’y
agad-agad mong ipagsisigawan
sa madla ang iyong nalalaman
dahil sa huli baka magkuha
ka lang ewan.

Mas maiging sa manahimik at
makinig, pag-aralan kung
sino, alin at kailan ang
tyempo na dapat mong pasukin
para sabihin o ibahagi ang
iyong nalalaman dahil ito
ang tama.

Walang may interes kung
ano ang tama o totoo dahil
ang likas na prioridad
ng tao ay gawin at sundin
kung ano ang nakakaginhawa
sa kanya, tila mga taong
may mataas na uri ng pag-iisip
lang ang nagtatanung muna
kung alin ang tama at ang
totoo.

Kaya wag kang magtaka kung
maraming tao ang sa katotohanan
o kung ano ang tama ay
bumabale-wala.

 


KUNG WALANG YUMAMAN NA EMPLEYADO, LALO NANG WALANG YAYAMAN NA ILUSYUNADO

Nobyembre 6, 2018

 

Ang gandang pakingan kapag
narinig mo na may nagsabing
WALANG YUMAMAN SA PAGIGING
EMPLEYADO!

Para bang kung ikay isang
namamasukan eh gusto mo ng
mag-pasa ng resignation sa
iyong amo, pero teka lang po…

Kung walang yumaman sa pagiging
empleyado eh ano po ba ibig
nating sabihin?

Ibig po ba nating sabihin ay
mga negosyante lang ang yumayaman?

Gaano po ba katotoo ito?

Lahat po ba talaga ng nag-negosyo
ay yumaman?

O baka naman po kung tatanungin
natin sila eh mas gusto nilang
namamasukan nalang rin kung sakaling
meroon sa kanilang tatangap na kumpanya?

Kasi nga naman sa pagiging empleyado
walang lugi, keh bumenta ang negosyo
o hindi eh ganun parin ang kikitain
mo?

Hindi biro ang mag-negosyo, hindi
ito laru-laru lang, tandaan mo
kapag hindi ka kumita eh
magdudusa kayo ng negosyo mo at
ang malungkot pa nito pati pamilya
mo damay…

Kapag kumita ng malaki ang negosyo
hindi ibig sabihin pwede mo gastusin
lahat ng kinita nyo, dapat isipin mo
ang kinabukasan ninyo ng negosyo
mo, dahil kung hindi kamalaunan sa
kangkungan kayo pupulutin pareho at
malungkot ulit nito malamang pati
pamilya mo damay.

Kaya kung tutuusin at pagkukumparahin
ang buhay ng may negosyo at empleyado
ay pareho lang. Pareho lang sila
dapat maging masinop sa pera, keh
malaki pa ang kinikita nila.

Ano ba ang kahulugan ng “MAYAMAN”?
may sariling bahay na magarbo,
sasakyan na modelo, napapag-aral
ang mga anak sa eksklusibong paaralan?

Nakakabili ng mamahaling gamit at nasusunod
ang luho sa buhay?

Kung ito ang kahulugan ng mayaman eh
hindi totoong walang yumaman na empleyado.

Manapa malinaw na ibig sabihing ang pagiging
empleyado ang mabilisang paraan para
yumaman…

Baka ang nagsasabi nito eh yung mga
taong hindi makahanap ng TOTOONG TRABAHO.

Yung mga taong hindi makuha yung
posisyong nagpapasweldo ng may kalakihan.

Mahirap talagang matangap sa trabaho
o sa isang partikular na posisyon dahil
kung iisipin mo na ikaw ang may-ari ng
isang negosyo gusto mo syempre yung mga
magiging tauhan mo na magpapatakbo ng
iyong kumpanya ay mga mahuhusay at
mapapagkatiwalaan, ang tanung
eh mahusay ka ba? kung hindi gaano
eh ang pinaka importanteng tanung
mapapagkatiwalaan ka ba?

Sa usapang mahusay madali nalang
iyan eh, kasi ang trabaho napapag-aralan
o di kaya natututunan pero yung
usapang mapapagkatiwalaan ka ba?
eh ibang level ng diskusyon ito.

Syempre sasabihin ng mga tao ay
mapapagkatiwalaan sila, pero kapag
natangap na sa trabaho ang iba
puro reklamo ang maririnig mo,
para bang gusto
nila eh sumweldo nalang at hindi na
magtrabaho, tapos lalayasan ang kumpanya
at susubukang lumipat sa iba, ang
problema alam ng mga H.R sa kumpanya kung
kupal ka na empleyado, hindi natin
maitatago iyon basta-basta pwera nalang
talaga na talento mo ang maging
mapag-pangap pero kadalasan lalo
na sa ngayon madali ng makita ng mga
kumpanya kung ikay solusyon o problema
kapag kinuha ka nila.

Walang masamang mag-negosyo, magandang
adhikain iyan, kasi ang mga mabubuti
at mahuhusay na negosyante
yan ang isa sa mga tumutulong sa ating
ekonomiya at karamihan sa kanila tumutulong
para umayos ang takbo ng ating buhay,
Pero hindi po ibig sabihin na wala ng
pag-asang umasenso ang buhay ng isang
empleyado o namamasukan dahil pagdating
sa usapang mayaman dapat malinaw po
sa atin ano ba kahulugan nito para sa
atin? Ang myaman ba ay pagiging maluho?
o pagiging masagana na napupunan ang mga
pangangailangan?

Kasi walang mayaman-mayaman kapag
ang tao maluho, kahit gaano pa
kadami ang pera ay mauubos ito
ng ganun-ganun nalang. Kapag
usapang kasaganahan naman eh ang
tanung po ay hindi lang kung magkano
ang kinikita ninyo kundi kung papaano
ninyo ito gastusin.

Sa pang-huling mga salita, lahat
po may pag-asang yumaman, kahit
tambay ka pa pero tinamaan ka
ng swerte posibleng makamit mo
yung titolo ng pagiging mayaman
pero ang tunay na nais na makamtan
ay hindi po yung basta maging
mayaman kundi paano maging
masagana na malayo kabagabagan.